
I had a wonderful first Mother's Day! We saw great friends, ate great food, played in the yard and sandbox, relaxed in the hammock and reflected on our lives one year ago when I was anticipating being a mother to Reed Wilder but did not yet know what that meant.
Pictures hereAdding "mother" to my identity was instant. It happened during his birth in one flash moment when our midwife said "reach down and grab your baby." Now, to my great joy, I will never not be a mother again.
At almost 10 months, Reed is a funny, sweet, agreeable, adaptable, silly, kind and curious little boy. The basics are that he is still eating as well as ever, sleeping most nights through the night, crawling all around using the famous monkey crawl from his older cousin Eli, starting to truly play with Samba, and overall a busy busy baby. He is starting to really enjoy books that we read together, and prefers to be outside with his hands in the grass, dirt or sand more than anything.
Still very comfortable with many other people, he is starting to show just the tiniest bit of stranger anxiety and can get shy in public. It is now clear that he saves his best silly behavior and cuddles for B and I. This, as you can imagine succeeds in absolutely melting our hearts making us crack up with laughter numerous times a day.
Billy's mom says that Mother's Day is a very proud day for her and now I understand what she means. I am eternally grateful to have the wonderful mother that I do, and to have learned so much from her. I am also blessed to have so many other amazing mothers in my life (Nana, Sherry, Jenny, Jenna, Helen, KJ, Carmen, Molly, Elizabeth, Miyo, Kate (x2), Kir, Karen (x3), Kris, Shelly, Angela, and more). Some wiser and more experienced and some newer to the role like myself. I take little bits of knowledge and support from each of you and honor you today.
Happy Mother's Day!!